"And I don't even like cats."
I overheard this the other day while waiting for my latte.
I turned around and looked for the person speaking.
She was a gorgeous 20-something woman with some friends, complaining about how she had just ended another relationship, and how she was going to be single forever.
But she had broken up with him--and it wasn't the first time!
She was sabotaging relationships...over and over again.
And then they changed the subject (my coffee was taking a very long time) to her recent trip to vist her family.
She took the time and traveled to visit them, and they completely ignored her while she was there.
I couldn't help thinking, "No wonder she can't stick with a relationship!"
I'd bet this wasn't the first time her family had stood her up or treated her badly...
And that's a hard thing to forgive.
When you can't leave the past behind and forgive--you get caught in the same vicious cycle.
If people have hurt you in the past, the best thing you can do for yourself is to forgive.
Forgiveness is something you do for yourself, not the person who hurt you.
And once you let go of that resentment, you are able to break free of your negative mindset and begin to change.
But you're not moving anywhere if you can't forgive the people who have hurt you.
It's easy to blame someone else for the way things are--it's much harder to forgive them.
And it's even harder to make the decision to change--
But I'm going to tell you a secret:
There's a simple trick to letting go of the past and claiming the life you want.
It doesn't involve playing the blame game, or reliving painful memories.
It DOES involve putting your success on automatic pilot, and unleashing the amazing power within you to literally make your dreams come true.
Best of all, it doesn't take years, or even weeks.
It takes just minutes.
So what's YOUR idea of the perfect life?
I bet it's not dying alone with 23 cats.
Whatever your dream, find out how you can make it happen by clicking here:
http://www.physiologyofexcellence.com/index2.html
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